Need Some Advice

[thumper14801]

I'm not sure if this is the right section for this but here goes anyways. I have been having an issue with my exfiance and her thinking that she has to slander my name and reputation. To give a little background on this I was with this individual for nine and a half years and we had a daughter together in the course of this relationship. After the birth of our daughter she believed that all i was there for was to provide her with a home and to take care of my daughter while she went out with this one and that one when she pleased withou me saying or doing anything about it. This I did for my daughters sake and for the hope that some day she would come to her senses and settle down and we could be a family. After a couple of years she signed our daughter over to her parens saying that she couldnt provide for her and that I refused to. This is all I could take, the fighting and arguing, the going out whenver with whomever she pleased and then to give our daughter away and use me as her excuse, I had to leave. I have tried to reconcile with her for our daughter but only to be met with scorn and hate. since then I have lost my daughter and havent seen her in over 6 years. I have reconciled myself to the fact that I will never see her again. I have started a new life with someone who cares for me and our growing family. My ex has seen this as a threat to her for some unknown reason and has attempted on several occasions to make my life a living h-ll. She has cost me jobs, friends and homes becuase of her lies and slander. I have tried to reason with her but as I have said to no avail. I have tried going to law enforcement and all they tell me is to leave her alone. What I am in need of is for someone to tell me if there is ANYTHING I can do to get her to stop interrupting my life. I dont know what else to do or where else to go. any help would be appreciated.

* My ex lives in PA I live in NY State *