Dropping off/picking up children question

[rileycameron814]

My Ex and I have 2 children together. We were never married. He left and moved an hour away. He didn't pay child support for almost 18 months. Finally I am recieving it but its not on a weekly basis. My question is,is thinks that I should come and bring them to him on the weekend. does anyone know if this is true or not?? There is no custady,its just between us,I have them Mon-Sat, he takes them Sat at around 4pm to Sun about 7pm. Should I be bringing them to him??

[jacksgal]

Without a court order ther eis no rule on this.

[mischastar]

If there was no written legal form deciding on custody, then there is no reason why you should be taking them to him.

If it is between you and him I suggest you speak to eachother and come to an agreement or comprimise. Unfortunately it may result in you having to drop them off half the time and him pick them up the other half the time.

Hope this helps

[jvivian]

I am the non custodial parent and we went to court. My ex moved about 55 miles away from where we lived with the children and it is my responsibility to pick up and drop off the children each and every time i visit them. It is not your fault he moved 100 miles away and if he wants his visits then he should be willing to compromise with you on the transportation issues. If not go to court get it all legal and then he will have to provide the transportation. Also without a court order keep in mind at any one of his visits he can decide that he wants to keep the kids and you can not stop him. The court tends to favor who ever has custody so if you do go to court i would stop visitations until the custody order is in place. Good luck.