ConfusedMummy
08-31-2007, 01:18 PM
hello, i just joined - thought i would say a quick hello and introduce myself before i asked my question.
i'm not too sure if i will be able to help anybody on here and this just isn't my subject at all, but hopfully maybe sometime in the future i will be able to say something here and there. so hello!
my question, i've been having problems with in laws (well i say inlaws me and partner aren't married nor do we live together if that matters) they haven't made an effort to see mine and partners son for past 12months+ and this week i received a letter saying to reply within a set number of days or they would be placing matter in their solicitors hands as they are saying i've stopped them from seeing my son, i've just stopped himgoing down their house as i feel very worried and anxious there, but have said they can visit us here at our home anytime. i replied to the letter. in the letter i stated i was scared and intimidated by them, but they were welcome to visit anytime, me hoping that in my own home i would feel better and more comfortable. partners parents must have read letter then phoned up having a go (yet again) and made threats to take me to court for 'slander' and accused my partner of 'discrimination' and then threatened to 'knock out' my partner. these are the people who want to supposidley see my son but in past year+ have made no effort to. after 1st phonecall parents phoned back up and wanted to arrange a 'neutral ground' meeting place. i'm really worried and anxious to say the least and wasn't thinking and just want there to be no hassell and said 'what ever, i'm not bothered' and it was arranged. after all we've gone through with the family and the threats i'm really really worried about having my son in that kind of enviroment - especially after the threat again on the phone. is there anything that can be done? do i have to go see these people? i don't trust them, i'm intimidated and scared and don't want my son around them with me or otherwise. any help of anything i can do legally to stop this hassell and stop these people coming near me or my son would be greatly appreciated. i don't know where to start to get information. im a full timemum so don't have alot of money to go to solicitors to ask for advice to be honest. thank you for any advice.
i'm not too sure if i will be able to help anybody on here and this just isn't my subject at all, but hopfully maybe sometime in the future i will be able to say something here and there. so hello!
my question, i've been having problems with in laws (well i say inlaws me and partner aren't married nor do we live together if that matters) they haven't made an effort to see mine and partners son for past 12months+ and this week i received a letter saying to reply within a set number of days or they would be placing matter in their solicitors hands as they are saying i've stopped them from seeing my son, i've just stopped himgoing down their house as i feel very worried and anxious there, but have said they can visit us here at our home anytime. i replied to the letter. in the letter i stated i was scared and intimidated by them, but they were welcome to visit anytime, me hoping that in my own home i would feel better and more comfortable. partners parents must have read letter then phoned up having a go (yet again) and made threats to take me to court for 'slander' and accused my partner of 'discrimination' and then threatened to 'knock out' my partner. these are the people who want to supposidley see my son but in past year+ have made no effort to. after 1st phonecall parents phoned back up and wanted to arrange a 'neutral ground' meeting place. i'm really worried and anxious to say the least and wasn't thinking and just want there to be no hassell and said 'what ever, i'm not bothered' and it was arranged. after all we've gone through with the family and the threats i'm really really worried about having my son in that kind of enviroment - especially after the threat again on the phone. is there anything that can be done? do i have to go see these people? i don't trust them, i'm intimidated and scared and don't want my son around them with me or otherwise. any help of anything i can do legally to stop this hassell and stop these people coming near me or my son would be greatly appreciated. i don't know where to start to get information. im a full timemum so don't have alot of money to go to solicitors to ask for advice to be honest. thank you for any advice.